Coaching for the ones who feel too much, want too much, and are done abandoning themselves for it.

Trauma-aware, identity-affirming coaching for those ready to stop shape-shifting in love, in bed, and in who the hell they are.

Hello, I'm Ayesha

I work in the overlap — where trauma, sex, and relationships meet.

I’m a therapist-turned-coach with lived experience in the exact places most people were told to hide:
trauma that still echoes, intimacy that feels just out of reach, and a deep craving to be fully alive in love, sex, and self.

The work I do lives at the center of it all — where desire and fear coexist, and where your healing has nothing to do with being “fixed.”

Because joy, connection, and wild, worthy pleasure?
They’re not luxury items.
They’re part of your humanity.

You’ve done the work. You’re self-aware as hell.You just don’t know what comes next.

The people I work with aren’t starting from scratch — they know what hurt them. They’ve unpacked the patterns.
They’ve journaled their damn hearts out.

But they’re still stuck in loops:

  • Saying yes when they mean no

  • Disassociating during intimacy

  • Loving people who don’t love them back

  • Knowing what’s wrong, but not how to change it

You don’t need more insight.
You need support that helps you move.

HOW YOU CAN WORK WITH ME

Private Support

The Support Line (Voxer Coaching)

Real-time voice note coaching in your pocket. Choose your pace, I’ll meet you there.

Digital Products

The Playbook, Audio Sessions, Resource Bundles

Self-paced support that speaks directly to your body and your story.

Intensives

VIP Day Intensives

A concentrated space to unravel the hard stuff and rewire the way forward.

This isn’t about changing who you are. It’s about remembering what’s always been yours.

  • You’ll understand your past and how to stop reliving it
  • You’ll know what to do when the pattern resurfaces
  • You’ll stop abandoning yourself in love, sex, or silence
  • You’ll reclaim softness, wholeness, and real self-trust
  • You’ll stop gaslighting your own wants

Soft clarity. Unapologetic self-trust. And finally — movement.

Not ready for coaching? Get started here.

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This space was made for you if you’ve outgrown shame and are ready to build something real in its place. Coaching with me isn’t about performance. It’s about return.